So I went on two dates with a guy, and the first two had gone reasonably well so I agreed to a third.
At the end of the date, the guy asked me back to his place for ’after-dinner drinks.’ I accepted and we headed back to his house to cozy up on the couch. He decided that at this point, it would probably be good to tell me he had a girlfriend, who he had been with for over a year. Nice, reallly nice.
He then tried to explain humself, saying he liked me better than this girlfriend, but didn’t want to break it off with her until he was absolutely certain that I would date him. So, no thank you, I will not come in to your house and cozy up on the couch with you for an after-dinner drink. I will stay single and wait for a guy that doesn’t date around to see if he can land anything better than his current girlfriend.